Did you move to Thailand expecting to marry a Thai supermodel?
Do you think because you have some money, maybe more than the average Thai worker, that you will be attractive to Thai super models?
The answer is a resounding no, unless you are a western millionaire.
Can you find a Thai girl that is better than average looking and fit?
The answer is yes.
But, but, but.
Not every person is as you think.
You need to understand that right up front.
What are her needs and what does she see you doing to meet her needs?
Look in the mirror and ask yourself if you are really someone she is not ashamed to be seen with? Do you have the looks she won’t be afraid to be seen with?
If the answer is no, she will play you and get whatever she can from you.
If she is a 5 or 6 out of ten, a bar girl, Isaan farmer, you may have enough for her to stick around and take care of you. Maybe not. Thai women are very picky. Try to do a self evaluation why she picked you?
Many foreigners who think they have money, may have no more than a poor Isaan farmer.
However, there are many Thai women that have more than you will ever have.
These women will not be interesting in hanging out with an old, out of shape and unattractive man.
Face it, that is just reality here.
Many Thai women want a foreigner for a partner but many have very strict requirements plus having money money.
No Thai woman wants to lose her “face” being seen with someone that is no match for her or anyone else. They want to be proud they have a good looking foreigner to show to all their friends.
Sure there are some real oddball couples in Thailand. In that case, both parties have resolved themselves to getting their personal needs met.
The relationship is Thailand is much more complicated than it seems.
Thailand is a big country, lots of women in every province.
If you are smart and understand the logic, you may find just what you are looking for and her too!
However, if you are not smart, you bank account and savings will be drained while you are still thinking it is real love.
Be smart. Understand the deal.
Everyone wants something, even you.
Some will settle for less, some will make you pay for wasting their time.
Understand the game, it is not the UK, USA, or Australia.